Crushnthud's blog

So my wife and I have gone out to a major Adult club in Toronto this past few weeks and a Non-Monogamy munch in Southern Ontario as well. We're planning to go to more.
I have to say it was a strange and new experience just telling people you meet that you have a "Catfight, and women's wrestling fetish". Also that you're into Manfight, and wrestling with rules. It's quite the experience having a face to face discussion with people and talking about "Agonophilia" and discovering that you're not even the most extreme oddity in the room. Almost unremarkable by many people's opinion.

I do have to say that some of the other things we've learned is that it is tough to try to date other couples. Primarily it is tough to get everyone in the couples to find the other partner attractive. My wife has also discovered she's found beard's to largely be a turnoff...
It's not as big of an issue for my wife and I as we've agreed to solo play in our ENM.

Anyway, if anyone else is in the circumstance where their partner has zero interest in your wrestling hobby. Maybe hit me up, post fight maybe we can all go for dinner and our partners can talk about how ridiculous our interest in this is!

It is definitely a strange feeling to openly discuss your Agonophilia kink to people in an open room. A quite freeing one though.

Just to be clear I do go on just plain vanilla dates with women not involving any wrestling, or catfights. As part of my liberties in our ENM.

It's a great time to be alive!