Constriction/Crushing

Yeah I get turned on when hands are wrapped tight around my throat and around my neck, squeezing with different pressures to prolong the strangulation process in the construction around the neck. As I start to lose motor functions as I begin to twitch.

So I want to chime in on this one.

Since I was a teenager I have always been turned on by constriction holds, bearhugs, head scissors, body scissors, etc. Now that I have gotten older constriction holds mean something different as they are not a turn-on as much. With someone who has ADHD, it is like a very tight hug and is very comforting. I love the feeling of the constriction getting tighter and tighter knowing that I have no control over the situation and it's better to give in and embrace the squeeze versus trying to fight it. For some reason, my brain associates this with a very comforting hug, which actually helps my brain start to slow down and relax. It's also a submissive thing, since I have been in the leather lifestyle for years constricting holds can be very dominant holds to be put into with no escape, and so therefore I have no choice but to submit. For me, it is about the release of control.

Constriction puts me in a very subby place too. Back in the craigslist days I had a couple guys (at different times) try to squeeze me and the squeeze was unfortunately gentle and paired with phrases like "oh, that's hot, you like that..." which was a major turn off. I find that when a squeeze Dom is really getting off on me suffering, struggling to breath, panicking, in pain, etc it's a lot hotter. I actually have a new friend who just moved here who put his thumbs in my arteries and it started off playful but then he locked eyes with me and stared with this cruel intensity that I wasn't used to seeing in him and it scared me a bit as I started to lose motor control and shake and I panicked and tapped and he let me go but part of me wishes he hadn't. There's also this mental place where the panic when there has been a fair amount of breath control and squeezing of various kinds where you really really want it all to stop so you can just breathe normally and when I get there part of me really wants the Dom to relish that and milk my fear as long as they can. That's really hot to me. I think I need to build/engineer a squeeze play bondage table which allows the top to move the access points to the sub so they can crush what they want to without giving back any movement what so ever so one remains completely helpless but unfortunately I don't see how to easily do that so that good flow can be created. I'll noodle on that for a while.

The table sounds like an amazing idea, but also sounds complicated all at the same time lol

Waiting in northeastern Pennsylvania for to slowly tighten his legs around me in some tight prolong scissors holds.

The feeling of being crushed and struggling to escape, or crushing an opponent and feeling hom struggle to escape. Either way, it is great.

I like the feelings of lightheadedness, dizziness, and losing consciousness that that goes with it, I became addicted to sleepers watching wrestling on TV as a kid. I found a lot of it boring. What really got me, though, was some big guy crushing another in bearhugs and especially sleepers. I took bjj for a number of years, and had a lot of it there. Also, I've met guys into it and let them give it to me. I'm still looking for guys who are bigger and better than I am to wrestle. I especially like getting a lot of partial sleepers and choking before finally going under or giving u.

I like both "sides" of this.
To test my strength on someone, feel them give in to it. Feel the struggle to breath, the tap. The sort of body worship that comes along with it.
The hand pressed against the flexed muscle that's crushing them in worship and subjugation.

Conversely to feel pure power from someone else and a little the reciprocal of the above.

I love the power, I love the tight squeezes, I love feeling helpless & realizing that letting my partner lock his thighs around my face/head might have been a mistake as he is more powerful & punishing than I expected. Yet I also love being trapped, seeing & feeling my wrestling partners thighs flex & tighten again & again. Recognizing that my face is trapped face to crotch & hoping that my partner will respect my limits. I love not knowing how many times he will make me submit, or how long he will keep working me over. Bottom line, I guess I love it all.

I love when my face is stuck in a crotch and his balls cover my nose and mouth so if I can get air, which I usually can't, it will smell like him

Yes, that is also a great part of a head scissors with my face buried deep & tight into your crotch.

I love to panic, to not be able to breathe, to get light headed. I also love to not have control. Constriction puts me in completely submissive headspace

Totally agree with this! It can be an amazing feeling if you trust your partner/opponent. The combination of being squeezed and smothered is super hot. Would love to find a crusher who enjoys inflicting this kind of "punishment"!

I like to feel the other guy's legs and arms wrapped me. Holding me until he is ready to let me go.

I agree, the body contact and tightness of certain holds like scissors, bear hugs and scissors used in combo to constrict is pretty hot 🙂

Hey everyone, so I’m bored in lockdown in Sydney and thought I’d revive this chat to talk about what I like with constrictive elements of wrestling and hear anybody else’s stories/fantasies.

I love the idea of being constricted in wrestling by a much larger, muscular guy. The thought of being wrapped up in mountains of controlling muscles and coils, whilst everything slowly tightens around me is amazing to think about! I like the inability to escape from an embrace like this, and the breath control from this!