First off...great topic! I feel like this is an important but often overlooked step!
It really depends on my role in the session, generally I like to be the Dom/Top/Giver. If I'm in that role I take some time for myself after providing after care to my partner, having a drink and a cigar normally helps me come back to reality. If the scene was really intense I make sure to stay away from making major decisions for a few days, be more aware of my tone and how I interact with others. Dom drop tends to make me more aggressive and irritated if I don't make time to allow myself to level off.
I usually strip down (if I was wearing anything to begin with) and then get on the loser's chest and put my bruised, aching belly in their face. I force them to give me a massage with their mouth while I pour out some whiskey and have a few drinks to being the better man.
Once I get messed up, they might be able to beat me up in the next round. Or I might saddle up a second time. Hahaha
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midwestboxer (35 )
18.2.2021 23:08First off...great topic! I feel like this is an important but often overlooked step!
It really depends on my role in the session, generally I like to be the Dom/Top/Giver. If I'm in that role I take some time for myself after providing after care to my partner, having a drink and a cigar normally helps me come back to reality. If the scene was really intense I make sure to stay away from making major decisions for a few days, be more aware of my tone and how I interact with others. Dom drop tends to make me more aggressive and irritated if I don't make time to allow myself to level off.
General Info on Aftercare :
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29341534/sexual-aftercare/
https://www.lovense.com/bdsm-blog/aftercare
jed7720 (13)
19.2.2021 17:18(In Antwort dazu)
well put. good advice and topic.
Jojete (0)
19.2.2021 02:35(In Antwort dazu)
Thanks for dropping those resources, I took for granted that the concept of aftercare isn't just inherently a part of all violence based communities.
Also your experience on the mental aspect of aftercare for the dom/giver is something I had never thought of, so thank you for sharing that.
I suppose it goes a lot farther than just belly rubs and cuddles.
wa rassler (5)
15.2.2021 23:26I usually strip down (if I was wearing anything to begin with) and then get on the loser's chest and put my bruised, aching belly in their face. I force them to give me a massage with their mouth while I pour out some whiskey and have a few drinks to being the better man.
Once I get messed up, they might be able to beat me up in the next round. Or I might saddle up a second time. Hahaha
Jojete (0)
15.2.2021 16:26What kind of aftercare do you like after a good gutpunching session?
Share your favorite experiences!