Mature chap looking to meet guys to brush up on wrestling techniques. Been out of action a long time and looking to meet guys engaging in this activity to keep fit. I know some of you from years ago when I lived in the Burnley area. Mainly interested in re-establishing friendships with guys I've lost touch with. Not into anything insanely aggressive. I currently live in the Inverness area caring for a friend. Presently unable to host or travel vast distances but I'm sure we can come to an arrangement to meet up, we 'are' adults afterall.
Message me.
Please don't be a knob.
There's no need for attitude outside of a meet, unless of course we've met in the past or we know of one another from dialogue years ago.
It's become apparent due to recent dialogue with foreigners outside of the UK 🇬🇧 that there is much communication lost in translation. I can't be arsed explaining my ways to you guys who choose to challenge or message me first. If you don't have a perfect grasp of English with all the many varieties of accents and syntax why should you get offended at ME, for the way I speak my mother tongue? So, if you read this here, let it be known, you run the risk of being blocked 🚫 Because I am invariably a very outgoing and friendly chap with a basic knowledge of many foreign languages and a wicked sense of humour. I will play at cocky cheeky banter with you the first opportunity I get. Just to keep the conversation lively but if you read my messages as being hostile then you're reading them wrong. Likewise, if you offend me, I will tell you just as bluntly that you have done so. But most of the time, I do actually intuit my way through pretty accurately and work out all possible and available angles. I may look like a neanderthal but I can assure you that I am a Homo Homo-Sapian 😂 ⬅️ notice the joke, the play on words?
Caring for my mate Ferguson is taking on a new more involved form. I cannot realistically travel any great distance from the house. If I say I will pay for your travel &/or accommodation, I mean it.
As of today April 22nd 2024 I am finding it most difficult to care for him. I don't get a proper break and it's wearing me out seeing my wonderful friend struggle with his own health issues. I'd love to have one or two regular guys around about local to me that I could wrestle with for the stress outlet and to help me relax. And of course vice versa. I have had to block one local guy as he is just too downright selfish and inconsiderate. I was hoping for another local ish guy based in the Aberdeen area to become my new potentially regular wrestling opponent but I think he has too many issues himself so that's not going anywhere either. I just read an article from a 30 yr old American wrestler about wrestling and mental health. He raised some valid points. I feel lonely and isolated often. Most of my older mates from wrestling are well over 100 miles away. I'm just writing this profile edit today because I know I need help and I'm struggling. There just doesn't seem to be anyone close to me who isn't self absorbed or self centred or with a sense of humour. I don't have to be wrestling all the time either. How about just being plain sociable without expectations? I'm feeling very lonely. Please don't misunderstand my present vulnerability as a weakness. I'm still pretty much on the ball.