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Did He Get an Upgrade? Funny, But True Story!
Yesterday, I had scheduled a match with a buddy who is not on MF, but has a weird work schedule. I took the afternoon off and planned to go see him after I left work. But alas, it wasn't meant to be. His work called him up and asked him to come in. So I had nothing planned for my afternoon off. But then I remembered a guy that I had been wanting to go see. He's retired but in decent shape, but not a terribly skilled wrestler. But I've wrestled him in the past when he had a different profile, then took it down. I remembered you could do some light rolling around with him and do some "long holds", which I do enjoy at times with the right guys. In previous texting conversations with him he told me I was welcome anytime, and I told him I was a bit limited because he lived an hour away and driving at night now is a bit of a challenge because of my vision, and I try to limit my night driving to familiar territory. But seeing it was afternoon, there wouldn't be a problem. So I texted this guy, and he said he was around and I was welcome to come over. So I headed up into his direction as soon as I got off work.
When I pulled into his driveway, I got to the door, and he looked at me and seemed a bit confused. For some reason he wasn't expecting me but someone else, a certain someone that I've wrestled with many times in the past, though not in the last 3 years. It turned out, he had my number under the other guy's name/handle. We laughed about the mixup and went on for an hour with our "wrestling". When I left, he told me that he was glad I came over and that I was welcome anytime. When we had wrestled previously, it had been at my location. This was my first time at his house. I completely enjoyed the visit and am looking forward to meeting him again soon.
Now the story doesn't end there. I messaged the other guy, the guy he THOUGHT was on his way over, and told him this story. This other guy and I are trying to set up something soon, but apparently he has had a very demanding work schedule and getting away hasn't been easy, but he's working on it. When I told him what happened, he responded "This is funny. Lucky him. You are an upgrade". Although I appreciate the kind words, especially from someone who's butt I have kicked so many times, I'm not sure I'm an "upgrade", but at least the guy I saw yesterday was happy to see me. I will admit however, this was a very first time in 14 years of wrestling that I show up to someone's house after extensive dialogue and find out they were expecting someone else. If anything, it's the thing sitcoms are made of. But next time I text someone about getting together that I don't normally text, I'll make sure to clearly identify myself. RhodyRaybo!!!!
Peace out, Wrestlers!
surrey71 (21 )
vor 3 TagenI had a similar situation. Been messaging a guy from the other site and we carried on by text - he sent through some recent photos and right up until 30min before meeting he kept asking if I was still willing to meet.
A while later there was a knock on my door - when I answered it I asked “can I help you?” (Slightly put out that a stranger turns up when I don’t need them!)
He said “it’s me XXXX”. I showed him the pics he sent and it was a case of “oh I sent the wrong file”.
We still had about an hour of wrestling - he was kinda put out I managed to beat him 5-4.
Later I found out he is well known to send fake pics to most guys he arranges to meet - I don’t know why because he’s got a decent physique and really good skills on the mats - so why the masquerade is beyond me?
I’m obviously not going to name him as he has a profile on here - but it shows that if you are going to meet someone, be honest - you’ll always get found out!
RhodyRaybo (103)
vor 3 Tagen(In Antwort dazu)
I completely agree. Be genuine. Wrestling isn't just about two guys meeting, rolling, and going off into the night. At least not for me. I like to create some sort of bond with the guy, but it's not easy if you're gonna start off on the wrong foot like what you described.
Affamato (11)
vor 15 StundenRhody...nothing about you and your interesting history surprises me anymore. The guy you visited was lucky to have you stop by. I'm jealous...and yes, you will be punished for not coming to see me...Joe