aeneas's blog
Reliability...
Hi guys, the good ones and the bad ones! ;)
Being on this site and others i always wonder, why people start chatting with me, being enthusiastic about meeting, and when there is a real possibility to meet, they suddenly don t answer any more or don t come online. I think that s quite disrespectful and unpolite.
I try to be as honest and direct, when it comes to talk to new people, if i m interested in meeting them for real or not. If the meeting is close, i m checking my messages very often and answering as quickly, as i can. I think that s reliable.
It s also good to use other means of communication, like camchatting. If that works, a meeting is more likely to happen i think.
But reliability is also to answer messages from people your interested in. Distance is always an issue here, and no one can travel all the time around the world for a match.
But staying in contact and writing from time to time is possible for everyone! especially, when you live in a reasonable travel distance. Within Europe for example, from my perspective.
It s hard enough to find guys you like with similar interests in wrestling. so my call for today is, if you do, then be polite, honest and RELIABLE!
thank you for reading. share your thoughts...
cheers, aeneas
edscissors (31 )
06.10.2017 13:59I fear someone may add a comment to the effect that your post is a "rant" ... and/or a thumbs down ... but, for what it's worth, I'm happy to nail my colours to the mast and say that I agree with you totally.
Good manners cost nothing and are, in my experience, more often than not, a hallmark of our MF community; they are what makes MF such a nice, friendly site to be part of.
aeneas (18)
06.10.2017 16:25(In Antwort dazu)
thank you ed :)
i was just very disappointed recently, by a member of our friendly MF community. and it s not the first time that happened.
that s why i wrote this blog, thinking, that other guys here experienced similar things and share my view.
toxic (13)
06.10.2017 21:47"But staying in contact and writing from time to time is possible for everyone!"
As someone who doesn't get much attention here anyway I fully agree. Sometimes pretty saddening.
Wrestling Ace (41)
29.11.2019 20:38I totally agree with you. Distance is a problem, why people want to add more problems ?
Sadly, people are less and less polite nowadays.