Milking Matches

Multi part question/comment, not sure if there is a category that this normally falls under, if so, what is it/where is it. Also posting to see if others enjoy that particular kink.

I’ve been using edging as a tool for my own pleasures for at least 20 years at this point, and I always wanted to use it as a tactic on others. But most people don’t have the stamina to handle it, and either get blue balls quickly, or just bust before much edging can actually be done. Has anyone shared a similar observation? And has anyone enjoyed hiding this tactic on themselves? My usual session is at least 4 hours, due to time constraints, not much longer than 6 anymore, sometimes I’ll start before bed and put a condom on while I sleep and resume in the morning, using the precum that’s oozed out during my night boners to continue the session when I wake up. But my record for longest session is a 16 hour car ride, where I edge myself through the night to make it home with just the occasional stop for gas, drinks and food. It made for a very enjoyable finish when I finally walked in the door.

Wow, edging for 16 hours! That’s insane. I bet that as one huge orgasm when you got home.

I like the idea of sleeping with a condom on to save the overnight precum. Gotta try it soon. Don’t let it go to waste!

What do you mean by edging ? For me it’s to stop masturbating at the time you feel to ejaculate. So I don’t understand what you mean with this blue balls effect. I like to masturbate to rhe ejaculating point and stay with this excitation. Doing it on others is a great moment but difficult to stop at the right time, for him to have an orgasm without ejaculating.

Also, I failed to mention in my other comment, edging doesn’t necessarily have to be one straight session. You can take moderately long breaks between, and to someone not used to that, blue balls develop quickly.

You mean 2 or 3 times a day or everyday during a week ?

There’s certainly a lot to explore in this specific facet. And so much pleasure to be had.

Again, there’s no specific timetable. But I’ve edged for an hour or so, took a break, came back to it 4 hours later, edged for another hour or so, stopped and came back to it the next morning. You can extend the session in any way you wish for varied results.

Sure man, I’ll try to do so. But It will be difficult to keep this statement…sure a new sensation in my body and mind. Certainly a lot of precum during this time.

So what you described is technically edging. To go into a bit more detail though, edging typically takes time. I don’t believe there’s any hard and fast rule for that though. But the premise is to learn that imaginary line that once crossed, you will cum. Also for clarity sake, I’m going to further define that. Everyone has that line, but most people don’t realize it’s actually 2 lines that are very close. Edging allows you to get more intimate with those lines to learn where the distinction is. With practice and patience, you can repeatedly orgasm without ejaculating at all. That right there is where the blue balls effect comes into play. To someone who’s used to simply jerking start to finish, hovering around their orgasm line will produce a lot of precum and make their balls churn. If left in that state for too long, someone not accustomed to this practice will begin to experience an aching that only gets worse the longer they are aroused without being able to release. Milking is the practice of focusing on getting a man to ejaculate, edging is the practice of forcing them to orgasm, and if done properly, you can force an orgasm several times before those lines blur and they finally cum. Also yes, it’s very difficult to do that to someone else. You need a lot of communication for it to be successful.

Ok I’ve understood. So yes I do edging but generally one orgasm only and after I stop masturbate. Sometimes I have one orgasm before the last with ejaculation. I’m too excited to control my cum for a second orgasm without ejaculation. That’s why I didn’t know this blue ball effect. Thanks to you I will try to have multiple orgasms trying not to ejaculate. Yes and you confirm it’s difficult to practice on another person, but when you arrive he will never forget it.

Yup, if you do manage to make them have multiple orgasms, they will never forget it. On the turn side, a ruined orgasm is the other potential outcome of edging. Where you can force the stimulation to a point but keep their excitement down, so them ejaculate without having an orgasm.

It’s something I’m not as familiar with personally. I’ve never given someone else a ruined orgasm or have o had one myself. But it follows the premise of crossing one of those 2 line

Yes sure, it’s a pitty you’re so far, I think we can play and enjoy mutually together. Discovering new eras

I’ve never been able to have a ruined orgasm. One person I know is able to that and it’s really exciting because he keeps the excitation level high 😊